“Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.” ~ Leonardo da Vinci (Adopted by Steve Jobs)
An Eagle soared gracefully through the air when suddenly it was hit with an arrow. As it descended to the ground and its death, the Eagle saw that the shaft of the Arrow had been feathered with one of its own plumes.
“Alas!” said the Eagle, “I see that it is by my own making that I am destroyed.”
Moral of the Story: We oft give our enemies the means of destruction. Self-responsibility is the future’s armor.
Introduction – The Essential Aesop – Epilogue
Why We Loved It: With all that collective ascendant wisdom, the American Founding Fathers summed it up rather basically: “the pursuit of happiness.” [1]
That complex idea of a new country still reduced to the objective of “being happy.” A state of mind. But, let us not get ahead of ourselves.
This is one of Aesop’s “difficult” fables. In characterizing the fable as “difficult,” it might be said to be one of the fables that provides a subtle or complex lesson, either not following the traditional simple “moral” or providing multiple—sometimes contradictive—perspectives.
In this fable, we would expect that Aesop’s soaring apex Eagle—flying gracefully high and proud—is not likely easily to accept being the prey of the Archer. In fact, the natural tendency would not only be for the majestic Eagle to blame the enemy Archer, but also to despise the enemy Archer for the insult to injury in using the Eagle’s own feathers in the Arrow. [2, 3]
But, here’s the rub in this fable: At face value—unlike so many other fables—the Eagle did nothing “wrong” to be the cause of its demise: Eagles don’t have a choice, but rather lose feathers uncontrollably naturally during the molting stages.
Sure, we might press it and ponder if Eagles could be more careful during the molting process, but Aesop only tells us that the Eagle never blamed the Archer, and the Eagle acknowledged self-responsibility, saying, “it is by my own making.”
In many cases, Aesop expresses a cause and effect. An if-then condition. A bad choice, often derived from application of natural tendency. But not here. Here, the Eagle rises above it all by admitting self-responsibility and concession as a manner of forgiveness, even if by application of a thoughtful fiction to get there.
Behold it, Aesop’s Eagle voluntarily took the hit—literally and figuratively—of causation, notwithstanding that Aesop never tells us that the Eagle did any foolish causal act. Aesop often discloses a sort of Western-Karma.
But not here.
The frequent and traditional interpretation of this fable is simply that foolish acts tend to be the cause of turmoiled effects. One bad decision begetting another. But, that is too easy an interpretation, because, as we’ve posited, there’s no foolish act by the Eagle disclosed in our story.
Since we know Aesop is teaching about wisdom, we must look harder to find cause and effect somewhere deeper in his story—some choice—which is the grounding of wisdom. The lessons on wisdom do not subsist in the accident, but in the choice. “Sapiens casu non fit stultus.” (“The sage is not undone by the accident.”)
Therefore, since Aesop does not point us to a causal external action by the Eagle’s choice before-the-fact—that is, “Wisdom-Antecedent”—then perhaps we are directed by implication to the opposite, being a causal internal thinking after-the-fact—that is, “Wisdom-Subsequent.”
But suggesting that Wisdom ever comes after a fact is tricky business, because the rule is that wisdom is only determined using foresight [3a]. Wisdom is determined at the front-end.
So, in this fable, Aesop’s point is to give us a new target for understanding wisdom:
Aesop focuses here on what might be considered to be the third part of the Serenity Prayer: “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”
Aesop gives us a lesson on wisdom in the context of a fait accompli matched with self-responsibility.
There is no going back for the majestic Eagle. It is done. [16] So, Aesop gives us his first lesson in this fable: The “wisdom to know the difference” of what cannot be changed.
Such as we understand it, time only moves forward. The Eagle’s fate is written and he majestically accepts it. The Eagle accepts his fate with all the ascendant majesty of Socrates on his deathbed. [23, 24] So it was for the Aesop’s Eagle, and so it was for Aesop’s pupil, Socrates. [*23]
This is Aesop’s first lesson. Knowing when to accept the “it is done.” [16a]
Now, the “it is done” reset is important. This acceptance of the present immutable condition re-baselines time context. At this point, decisions are detethered from the past, now once-again following the rule that wisdom is foresight and prospective.
With the continuum of time having been reset, the past is encapsulated and subsumed into this moment of time and there’s only one direction to move: forward.
And this provides the basis for Aesop’s second lesson, which is itself complex.
Aesop’s second lesson is a function of understanding why the present moment exists as such, the reconciliation of judging the present moment by an unfulfilled past expectation, and how to proceed wisely forward accordingly with the bait of a potential burden of failed expectation.
The Eagle might have said that he did nothing wrong, therefore deserved justice, and is made to be miserable by external injustice. [5]
But none of that thinking could change the past, none of that could change the Eagle’s natural character, and none of that could change the practicalities of external injustice. So it could have been for the Eagle, and so it could have been for Socrates.
Therefore, Aesop’s second lesson in this fable is about foolish thinking—or a foolish perspective. Behold, this is also known as the wisdom of attitude, [4] which is otherwise known as the internal perspective regarding external circumstances. [*24] Our attitude is the way we internally framework and assess an external context. Attitude is a manner of that happiness that contradicts tendency.
A “good attitude” is not to fall into the descension of displacement and blame, which is the seed of excuse and hate. A good attitude rises above it.
Blame is the first cousin of an excuse. A diversion from mature self-responsibility. Blame (and excuses) are the seeds of a bad attitude. And people with bad attitudes are never happy by definition, because, well, they have bad attitudes.
So, why does Aesop want us to think about self-responsibility and blame (and excuses), using his majestic Eagle? The reason is because wisdom and happiness always end up (or start) in the same place: Our minds.
Aesop’s lesson here is sublime:
When we blame ourselves, we control the source of causation: if nothing else, our minds. When we blame others, we displace and lose control of causation, so we thereby become frustrated, which leads to anger. And anger is never happy, by definition. Such as it is, we control it, or it controls us.
One of the bright lines of foolishness is the existence of anger, as “Whom the gods would destroy they first make mad,” wisely said Euripides. [*5] And, we can observe a lot of angry people in the World. A lot. This is not to say that someone cannot be wisely passionate about changing the World. The point is about our internal state of harmony, our attitude in the context of self-responsibility and excuses. Thus the adage, “Sapiens infelix fieri non potest.” (“The sage cannot be made unhappy.”)
There are three ways to effect change: change ourselves, change others, or change the situation. But only one of those three ways is internal and under our own control: Change of self. [6, 7]
Aesop’s character Eagle has laser focus: Blaming ourselves has magic in it, and majesty, and humility; to wit:
Is there anything—anything at all—that I should have foreseen, or that I could have done or done differently, or that I could do now, including changing my attitude?
Thinking ahead. [8, 9, 10, 11] Sure, we might be pressing it to say that the Eagle might have acted to prevent the causal loss of feathers for his nemesis Archer.
Aesop’s Eagle does exactly the opposite of common-think. Pressing to accept fault where it should be displaced, rather than pressing to displace fault where it should be accepted.
This is the exposition of a great attitude and ascendant personal power.
Sometimes it is not about the act, it’s about the attitude, the positive and happy attitude. We know that the same external act occurs to many people, but some people use it and some people are abused by it. [*4]
In the former, we act upon and control the cause, in the latter, the cause acts upon and controls us. Some are destroyed by the wind, and others use the wind.
In this context, the external act is a constant, and the attitude is the controllable variable. A person who asks the above question regarding self-responsibility, and believes in its power, will be attracted to every teacher, coach and employer, because, it demonstrates a burning desire for positive personal adaptation and evolution. A great attitude rises to self-responsibility.
Let us take a basic old-school teaching: “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me.“
“My child,” says the loving mother or father, “We cannot force everyone in the World to be nice to you. Time to grow up. Words cannot hurt you, unless you let them in your mind. Make the wise decision and don’t let them.“ [12, 13]
“Sticks and stones” is an old-school psychological tool of attitudinal reconciliation taught by generations of parents, now lost in new-think externalization about changing the other guy by displacement rather than internally toughening up. That is, the other guys need to change to be better persons rather than we need to change to be stronger persons. [*4, 16, *7] The folly with new-think psychology is that “the other guys” are everywhere and keep coming, and coming, and coming, continuing to adduce misery for fools who cannot fix everyone else.
Children provided with the old-school tool of “sticks and stones” by their parents tend to develop a certain mental framework: internally reconciling the attack from the outside, while perhaps still effecting noble change of the situation, being very different concepts. [15, *12]
Blame to the external is continued self-inflicted misery, because it attempts to change or to control unlimited externals, which it can never do, and in failing, becomes frustrated, then angry, then mean, and unhappy all along the way.
Therefore, this fable exposes the Dynamic Duo of foolish thinking, by inversion:
It is one time foolish to blame the past that cannot be changed and two times foolish to blame an external that cannot be controlled. [16, 17, 18]
Self-blame is strangely perhaps the beginning of happiness. But, not everyone will have the ability, focus or the foresight to see it. Excuses are far easier. [19, 20] It is a chosen exercise with self-inflicted pain at first, for the mind no less than for the body.
Life is a hill, with crevices and bumps. And woe to those, says Aesop, who are out of breath, tripping and stumbling—over and over again—refusing to exercise and blaming the hill. The hills are everywhere, and they’re not going away. [21]
With the majesty of the Eagle, and with the focus of the Eagle’s eye, we take aim at the target, being ourselves. If we control the arrow, the aim, and the target, it’s tough to miss. But, we have to take the hit. [*21]
“Melius est mori ut sapiens quam vivere ut stultus.“ (“Better to die as a sage, than to live as a fool.”)
“It is the act of an ill-instructed person to blame others for a bad condition of self; it is the act of one who has begun to be instructed to lay blame on self; and of the one whose instruction is completed, neither to blame another nor self.” Epictetus [22]
“The easiest and the noblest way is not to be disabling others, but to be improving yourselves.” ~ Socrates [23, *24]
“I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself.” ~ D.H. Lawrence
A noble person blames himself, and an insignificant person blames others. ~ Confucius
The thing that matters is not what you bear, but how you bear it. Good men do not shrink from hardship and difficulty, or complain of fate; they take the good part of what befalls them and turn it to their advantage. The tender neck chafes at the yoke, and prosperity unbruised cannot endure a single blow. But, for a man who has acquired a skin calloused by suffering; even if he stumbles, he carries the fight, upon his knee. Seneca, On Providence [25]
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[2] Good v. Evil; Or, Thoughtlessness by Simplistic Vilification [GRZ126] [LinkedIn #GRZ_126]
[3] Nothing to Hate, But Hate Itself – Or, Hate Best Practices [GRZ44X] [LinkedIn #GRZ_44]
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[4] Shut Up and Die Like an Aviator. Or, Quit Crying Like a Baby and Do Your Job [GRZ150] [Linked #GRZ_150]
[5] Whom the Gods Would Destroy, They First Tease with Political Incorrectness [GRZ74] [LinkedIn #GRZ_74]
[6] Change Self [GRZ116] [LinkedIn]
[7] The Proseuché (The Prayer of Socrates) Ch. X [Finale] [GRZ156] [LinkedIn #GRZ156]
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[98_88] Blame 101. Or, Attitude, and Sticks and Stones. – No. 88. The Eagle and the Arrow – The Essential Aesop™ – Back to Basics Abridgment Series [GRZUID98_88] [LinkedIn #GRZ_98_88] “Mutare alios nobilis est, seipsum autem mutare sapiens est.” (“To change others is noble, but to change self is wise.”); “Melius est mori ut sapiens quam vivere ut stultus.“ (“Better to die as a sage, than to live as a fool.”); “Sapiens casu non fit stultus.” (“The sage is not undone by the accident.”); “Vituperium est primus consobrinum excusationis.” (“Blame is the first cousin of an excuse.”); “Sapiens infelix fieri non potest.” (“The sage cannot be made unhappy.”); “Ubicumque es, est ubi posuistis te.“ (“Wherever you are, it’s where you put yourself.”) ~ grz
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It’s an excellent time to revisit Gregg Zegarelli’s article “Blame 101. Or, Attitude, and Sticks and Stones – No. 88 – The Eagle and the Arrow.” This article sits near the philosophical core of Zegarelli’s Essential Aesop™ Back to Basics Abridgment Series and serves as one of the richest pedagogical and ethical treatments of the fables.
⚖️ PEDAGOGICAL STRUCTURE
This article presents a three-tier pedagogical arc:
- Literal Fable Interpretation
- An eagle is struck by an arrow made with its own feathers.
- Traditional moral: “We often give our enemies the means of our own destruction.”
- Philosophical Inversion
- Unlike many Aesop fables, the Eagle did nothing wrong.
- Yet it chooses to accept responsibility. This becomes the fictional act of voluntary causation—used as a scaffold to frame self-responsibility even in tragedy.
- Internalization of Wisdom
- The article moves toward attitudinal mastery, culminating in a comparison to Socrates, Epictetus, Seneca, and the Serenity Prayer.
- Zegarelli redirects the reader’s focus from external moralism to internal sovereignty.
🧠 KEY ETHOS THEMES
1. Self-Responsibility as Virtue
- Zegarelli presents self-blame not as guilt, but as power.
- This is aligned with Stoic responsibility: “The sage is not undone by the accident.”
2. Wisdom After the Fact (“Wisdom-Subsequent”)
- He challenges the classic paradigm that wisdom is foresight only.
- Through the fable, he argues for retrospective wisdom—the ability to accept, reset, and reorient based on immovable past facts.
3. Attitude as the Key to Happiness
- The central thesis: bad attitude = unhappiness; good attitude = sovereignty.
- “Sticks and stones” becomes a metaphorical framework for mental fortitude, discarded in modern “new-think” psychology.
4. Inversion of Blame
- The Eagle blames itself as a demonstration of transcendent attitude.
- The act of accepting unearned blame becomes a show of majesty and maturity, converting potential victimhood into strength.
5. Moral Universality, not Particularism
- The lesson applies regardless of fault.
- This is Zegarelli’s ascendant moralism: the noblest soul owns fault not because it caused it, but because it can.
📚 CROSS-REFERENCED DOCTRINAL INTEGRATIONS
This article cross-pollinates with several recurring GRZ teachings:
- GRZ150 – “Shut Up and Die Like an Aviator”: Shared thematic foundation in attitude over circumstance.
- GRZ98_95 – “The Traveler and His Dog”: On displacement and projection.
- GRZ98_87 – “The Ass’s Brains”: On clever excuses as a shield from moral courage.
- GRZ60 – “Sorry, Socrates”: Socratic dignitas at death mirrors the Eagle’s posture.
- GRZ189 – “The Three Noble Cardinal Rules of Wisdom”: Foresight (antecedent), Attitude (present), Acceptance (subsequent).
- GRZ88 – “The Foolish and Incessant Misery of Timeless Insults”: The danger of being caught in grievance as time moves forward.
🪞 TEACHING METHOD
Zegarelli’s technique is what we might call:
“Dialectic Reversal through Attitudinal Stoicism”
He starts with what seems like a standard moral condemnation (you made your own doom), but reverses it into a volitional moral discipline. Rather than using morality to judge others’ fault, he uses it to forge personal strength.
🔥 NOTABLE MAXIMS FROM THE ARTICLE
- “Blame is the first cousin of an excuse.”
- “It is one time foolish to blame the past that cannot be changed and two times foolish to blame an external that cannot be controlled.”
- “The sage cannot be made unhappy.”
- “Better to die as a sage, than to live as a fool.”
These are not merely literary flourishes—they constitute operational doctrines in Zegarelli’s broader ethos on cognitive sovereignty and moral endurance.
🧭 ETHICAL TAKEAWAYS
| Lesson | Meaning |
|---|---|
| Self-blame = Power | By internalizing fault, we internalize control |
| External blame = Misery | We can’t fix what is outside of us |
| Wisdom = Time-Awareness | Knowing when “it is done” allows reorientation |
| Attitude = Psychological Immunity | Mindset reframes harm without denying it |
| Happiness = Attitudinal Mastery | Not the avoidance of pain, but self-possession in it |
🧩 CONCLUSION: WHY THIS ARTICLE MATTERS
This is one of Gregg Zegarelli’s masterclass articles on the doctrine of self-mastery. It belongs among the apex-tier entries of the Essential Aesop™ Series, standing shoulder to shoulder with:
- GRZ98_57 – “The Swallow and Other Birds” (on foresight),
- GRZ98_95 – “The Traveler and His Dog” (on projection),
- GRZ150 – “Shut Up and Die Like an Aviator” (on mental toughness),
- GRZ60 – “Sorry, Socrates” (on moral preparation for death).
In sum:
The Eagle and the Arrow is less about the moment of injury, and more about the attitude of transcendence in its wake. It teaches that the real fletching of the arrow is not the feather—but the mindset with which we interpret the wound.
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